<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[mysite-1]]></title><description><![CDATA[PursuitofMore]]></description><link>https://www.pursuitofmore.net/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2026 18:16:21 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.pursuitofmore.net/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Justified Cynicism ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Justified Cynicism Oct 21, 2026 · @closer4kingdom When Believing the Best Becomes "Harmful" I recently came across a post on X titled "When Believing the Best About Someone Becomes Harmful." Fittingly, the words were set against an image of the scales of justice. I know what the author meant, because he has built a body of work that, sadly, justifies withholding horizontal forgiveness (the forgiveness we extend to one another), especially within marriage. I respect him. I know him personally,...]]></description><link>https://www.pursuitofmore.net/post/justified-cynicism</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad8a65f13c51a93805ce8f5</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2026 11:54:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/21ad95_5d7df48c7f064bfd8e13535d6333b92a~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_630,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Shawn Saunders</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[FOUR TRUMP CARDS OF INCONTESTABLE EXAGGERATION ]]></title><description><![CDATA[@closer4kingdom In courtrooms, in church discipline, and in settings that borrow their tone (couples counseling, for instance), four accusations can quickly become trump cards for whoever plays them: •      "You're in denial." •      "You're playing the victim." •      "You're manipulative." •      "You're minimizing." Each of these is sometimes true. Denial, victim-playing, manipulation, and minimizing are real, and anyone who has walked with people in recovery has seen them up close. But...]]></description><link>https://www.pursuitofmore.net/post/four-trump-cards-of-incontestable-exaggeration</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad71d1c2b3a4d8e8263a81d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2026 07:58:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/21ad95_8fd86e0f886c4e5781b1eb323768d2de~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_630,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Shawn Saunders</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[ELEPHANTS IN THE ROOM]]></title><description><![CDATA[Status Quo Exposed It’s been 39 years since I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. Wow, I’m getting old! I’ve been taught the Bible my entire life and have read it cover-to-cover five times. My parents had me in church from the time I was a baby; I remember attending three times a week: Sunday morning, Sunday night, and Wednesday night. One of the glaring gaps I noticed in my teenage years was the disconnect between the Scriptures and the actual practice of sharing one’s faith. Some...]]></description><link>https://www.pursuitofmore.net/post/elephants-in-the-room</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a7994be43b85b4f6fb11780</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 09:30:03 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Shawn Saunders</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[THE TRAP OF SELF-DEPRECATION]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Identity Crisis of the Modern Believer Well-meaning Christians often, albeit earnestly, employ a specific "vocabulary of lowliness." We hear phrases like: “I’m just a tool God uses,” “I am nothing and there’s nothing good about me,” “I’m only a messenger,” or “I’m just a sinner saved by grace.” These phrases have become a contemporary catechism—a rite of passage for participating in the local body of Christ.  While they reflect partial truths, they are rarely challenged. Instead, they are...]]></description><link>https://www.pursuitofmore.net/post/the-trap-of-self-deprecation</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a7995d200d7533fa2559d24</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 09:29:53 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Shawn Saunders</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[BOUNDARIES THAT CROSS THE LINE]]></title><description><![CDATA[Status Quo Exposed In my last post, “Elephants in the Room,” I ended by sharing about “the trust trap,” and posed the following questions: What does re-establishing trust actually look like and how long does it take? Is the offended party the sole judge and jury? What does withholding that forgiveness foster in our own hearts during the "probationary" phase? I want to address these questions in the context of boundaries.  Here’s an encapsulation of boundaries: According to “the boundary...]]></description><link>https://www.pursuitofmore.net/post/boundaries-that-cross-the-line</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a7996ce7e238b0b8ae5bfaf</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 09:29:43 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Shawn Saunders</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>